Dorf Bonarjee revisited
One of the happier consequences of this blog has been the bringing together of two distant wings of a large and scattered family. It's quite a story.
Some time ago I wrote about Dorothy 'Dorf' Bonarjee, an Indian-born poet and artist, who studied at London and Aberystwyth, won an award at an Eisteddfod, eloped with a French artist, and made her life in southern France. Her niece Sheela Bonarjee, who lives in north London, is a friend - and has on her wall a wonderful painting of her aunt which I can't resist posting again at the foot of this article. She also has the enchanting painting above, which I saw for the first time today.
That initial blog of mine captured the attention of Quentin Surtel, the grandson of Paul Surtel. Paul and Dorf were together for seventeen years. Paul married again (to Quentin's grandmother) and there was a breach between the two wings of the family. Quentin is now trying to trace details of his grandfather's early life, details which Paul was reluctant to share with his immediate family for fear of annoying his second wife. This morning, at Sheela's place, I had the pleasure to meet Quentin, and see some of the hugely evocative family photos he has brought with him.
The mesmerising photo on the right is dated July 1922, and it shows Dorf with her and Paul's son, Denis, who died in infancy. They also had a daughter, Claire Aruna Surtel, who was a journalist in Marseilles. The photo on the left is undated, clearly later, and shows Dorf in Indian dress, as she is in the portrait below. It raises all sorts of questions in my mind about identity - a woman from an elite Indian family, educated in Britain, living in bohemian style in France, and making a point of wearing a very smart sari.
Dorf didn't marry again after the break-up of her marriage to Paul - now a much sought after artist. Aruna never really knew her half brothers. Paul Surtel died in 1985, in his early nineties. By the time Quentin traced the other side of his grandfather's family, Aruna was a few months dead. But the barrier between Paul Surtel's two families has now been overcome.
I also met this morning Dominique Baron-Bonarjee, Sheela's niece (and so Dorf's grand niece), and a London-based performance and installation artist who, as with her great aunt, has associations with France, India and the UK. 'Dorf was a rebellious woman', she says, 'and so am I'. She's also pursuing the family history - and the Bonarjees have quite a tale attached to them - and has used some of that story in her art. (If you click here, the first two images on the carousel feature photos of Dorf, and others in the family).
And that uncompleted portrait of Dorf - it's unsigned, and while the assumption is that Paul Surtel was the artist, that's not absolutely clear. It is bewitching. See for yourself.
this piece is quite informative.
I have a picture of dorothy Bonarjee
My grandfather was Alexander Duff Bonarjee. He had 2 sons, Denys Ivan Bonarjee and Cedric Ivor Smith, my father. I recall occasional mention of Dorf but know nothing about her.
Caroline was your father born in 1904 and your mother Kathleen Styles Meeson? I cannot find any birth details for our Cedric Ivor Smith.
Indeed be was. How do you know about him?
Jane, if you want to contact me directly I'm on email@example.com. and I'm hoping you will be in touch.
as already mentioned -- yes, My father was Cedric Ivor Smith, 1904--1982, and yes he married Kathleen styles Meeson, my mother.
Thanks to your blog I have met my wonderful cousin Sheela Bonarjee, and we see a lot of each other.
Caroline Richmond (nee Smith)
I had asked on this website for details of my parentage. I have now solved the riddle.
Interesting read thanks for sharing
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